What's on your mind??

That is the question Facebook asks whenever you go to post a status and nearly 98% of Facebook users wouldn't dare to post what's on their minds. The other 2% is split between those people who don't post anything or have never noticed it says that and those who do post what's on their mind cuz they don't care what people think about them or simply aren't close enough to anyone on their facebook to care what they think. I, however, find that posting what's on my mind is more for a blog setup because well let's face it there's a lot on my mind at all times.
Most recently what's been on my mind has been whether to tell him or not. 3 people say yes and 3 people say no. While there are about 3 other people i could ask I don't feel like it would help cuz ultimately it's up to me. All six people have very valid points as to why i should/n't tell him and i respect all six of them a great deal, so their opinions mean more to me than almost anyone else in the world. I think it would however be helpful...at least to me (and that's all that matters) to lay out the reasons why for both, feel free to weigh in.


Tell Him

1. it is better to be straightforward than to hide behind it
2. a secret crush remains secret, even if both parties know of it
3. life isn't a Disney movie, you gotta get out there and get what you want - or at least have the closure of knowing you tried
4. it's a stereotype that guys have to take intiative
5. if it's the Girl who likes the guy, then the girl needs to tell the guy
6. you cant like someone and expect them to psychically understand how you feel, you need to let them know - maybe not upfront, but the message needs to be sent.
7. what if god is trying to get me to do something about it and im just sitting here and waiting
8. its pretty easy for guys to get crushes on girls that they hang out with a lot and are friends with, but they never wanna say anything so it wont get awkward
9. patience is one thing i seem to have very little of
10. spening all a lot of time dwelling on someone and it ending up that it's a lot of me taking things the wrong way and being distracted by those thoughts and feelings can make it even worse if things do come to the surface
11. it could mean the start of an amzing relationship

Don't Tell Him

1. i should just wait and see if he comes to me but she couldn't tell me how long i should wait, she just kept saying that i needed patience and when time was right god would bring the right guy into my life
2. the whole patience and waiting and timing thing is very tricky
3. idk if he's even ready for a new relationship
4. we don't get to hang out all that often so we're not as close as we once were
5. i think id regret telling him and it going bad more than i would not telling him
6. it could make for a super awkward interaction
7. its the guys duty to be intentional about telling the girl his interests (x3)
8. guys should know how to state their intentions, and if they don't, then they most likely don't have them or aren't at that place
9. i feel like if he really liked me he'd say something
10. we are called to be patient
11. it could mean the end of a friendship

So you see they have made some very valid points and some of those points could be interpreted either way, there is one person that i haven't gotten their oppinion on telling him and it might be the one that could give me the most insight and matter most besides his of course and i could ask him but it would involve being incredibly creative and possibly lying to him and i have vowed to never lie to him. Besides that would most likely end up in me telling him and im strating to think it might be best not to tell him, idk why just think itd be better to be patient.