This guy, uhg!!

So this boy is completely confusing me. Sometimes we are really on the same page like when he only wants it to be just us then at the same time he's not affectionate at all. Take last night for example, we went to the club and I kept trying to stand next to him and then he'd walk away. While there he held up a drink coaster that said hold me but he never wants/tries to hold my hand. We got back to ihouse and he whisper/asks to me do i want to watch youtube videos with him in the red room. Then makes it seem like he doesn't want me to. Then while we are we start talking about me leaving and he tells me he'll be pissed (his words, not mine) if he doesn't get to be at the airport when i leave, to which of course i told him i wouldn't want to (leave w/o him there). Then i try to lean against him and he keeps moving. It seems like his biggest problem is with touching and that's weird too because he seems ok with him touching me in a teasing way just not me touching him in a flirtatious way. Although, he was ok with me laying on him after gala and seems ok with me laying my head on his shoulder every now and then. I just wish I knew where he stood. He even asked me to go for a walk last week but all we did is walk and talk, we didn't hold hands or even stop and look at the beach. Mostly i wish he would just sit down next to me one night and grab my and like he did so many weeks ago... a back massage and some ice cream would be nice too but i'd settle for just him holing my hand.